The ex has never mentioned anything concerning this before, has never even hinted at this being in their head before now. What do you do? Do you challenge them on this newfound untrue accusation? Do you give up contact with ex and children to save your new family and career? How do you deal with this new roadblock to your children and your seemingly unbalanced ex spouse?
ETA: Well guys, I didn't realize I was the anti-raped-women-ignorant-new-spouse and so increds wrong in this scenario. I probably should have known better to post an actual debate (no I wasn't looking for validation, I know my spouse is a douche for not contacting his kids and really, if I were looking for validation I'd just go to the stepmoms forum and whine) in a forum filled with die hard feminists, rape victims and shit-stirrers. Thank you however, to those people who played along and answered the actual "what would you do" debate. It was interesting to see what those of you who answered would do in this scenario.